There seems to be a lot of RULES involved in internet dating:
- DRINKS not dinner on the first date (you may want to spend as little time and money and effort on that first meeting...)
- IF you want to see that person again, lose the secret squirrel e-mail account and exchange your real world ones and
- THERE'S a minimum of at least 5 e-mail exchanges before arranging for a meet & greet, play-date, what have you.
But when it comes to sex, there doesn't seem to be any hard and fast rules. (it just came out that way, I promise - this subject brings out the minx in me.) Some people make-out on the first date, some end with a hug and peck on the cheek (even if they're into each other) and others end up sloppy drunk and naked pretty fast (even if they're NOT into each other). My gay boyfriends would say that sex is a pretty important element that they aren't willing to leave to the imagination for very long. Sex on the first date is pretty common with the gay boys. Even if they're looking for a long term relationship. I would have to say that it depends on the couple involved, of course. But according to my recent findings these last couple of weeks - now almost a MONTH (!) - I see that it makes sense on the third date. ...or, at least it did last night. Does it change things? We will soon find out.
I have a second date on Saturday with a Cutey Pie and a first with a Charming Bloke tomorrow. The Smarty Pants (lucky fella last night) is still on the radar, however and is really the one I've been studying the most - or able to study since I have spent the most time with him. I would say this experiment thus far is paying off on a number of levels....
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